Looking Forward: Reflect on the Past, Embrace the New
Well, it happened again- we have closed out the "old" year and welcomed in the "new" year. If you are like me, it might feel as though each year is passing by more quickly than the last. Yet, this season offers a valuable opportunity for us to pause and reflect on the successes of the past year, and to look ahead to new possibilities and goals for the future.
Resolutions or Goals?
Many of us make New Year's resolutions, but the reality is that most of us struggle to keep them. Recently, I have noticed suggestions to reframe our ambitions for the new year as "goals" instead of "resolutions." When we set a goal, it becomes something we own- something that encourages us to take responsibility for our actions.
Learning from the Past
It is natural to look back and consider what we might have done differently. While it is important to process past experiences and learn from them, we cannot change what has already happened. The past is behind us. However, we do have the power to make different choices, change our direction or methods, and even acquire new skills. As Scripture reminds us, "Behold I will do something new; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert." (ESV)
Embracing Change
To do something new, we often need to make changes in our lives. Change is rarely easy; it can be uncomfortable, even frightening at times. Still, if we do not try new things, we might miss out on some of God's greatest blessings. Another verse provides encouragement: "God does not give us a spirit of fear; but of power, and love, and a sound mind." (ESV) This is a helpful reminder as we contemplate making changes in our lives. We do not need to be afraid; God will give us the power we need in order to move forward with a sound mind; and above all, He loves us.
Making Meaningful Changes
When considering any change, it is important to seek the Lord's guidance and help. The changes we pursue should have a positive impact on our own lives and, potentially on the lives of others. The change should matter to you personally and bring value to your life. Avoid making drastic, impulsive changes, especially those involving major life decisions, such a career shift, breaking off a relationship, or relocation. Gradual change is often more manageable and allows time to reflect on the possible outcomes, both positive and negative.
Setting SMART GOALS
One helpful tool for setting effective goals is the SMART framework:
· S - Specific: Clearly define your goal.
· M - Measurable: Identify how you will measure your progress (such as a time frame, cost, or effort).
· A - Attainable: Set goals that are realistic and achievable, even if they are challenging.
· R - Relevant: Make sure your goal is meaningful and motivating to you.
· T - Time Sensitive: Set a deadline to get going towards the goal to instill a sense of urgency and commitment.
As you work through this framework, write down some of your goals. This not only helps you remember them, but it also holds you accountable to yourself. One more thing, do not attempt to meet all your goals at one time. It can become overwhelming and cause you to give up on all of them.
Moving Forward with Hope
When we feel we've made mistakes, Scripture reminds us that God's love and mercy are renewed every day (Lamentations 3:22). As we plan for this new year, we can seek guidance and encouragement from God. Philippians 3:13 encourages us to let go of the past and focus on what lies ahead. While the past cannot be changed, we can choose new attitudes and make better decisions moving forward.
Join Our Vision Board Group Meeting
To help put into practice some of the concepts discussed in this article and to inspire fresh ideas for the coming year, we are excited to host a Vision Board Group event.
Event Details
· Date: January 29th, 2026
· Time: 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.
· Supplies & Brunch: Provided for all participants
· Cost: $10. per person
